Being Brave Means Learning To Let Go Of Things, And People, You Can’t Change Yeah, smoking is bad. But I'm not going to convince you to stop. You must do this yourself. There are things and people we can not and should not change. And there are things and people we should. Wish there was an easy way to tell the difference. PS. Disagree, agree, or share a personal story? Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.