Midlife Can Be Grueling We must find,and harness, our own super-power to change The drive and determination to correct life’s course after decades of heading in the wrong direction can be grueling. Thank God for that. At least we’re alive to have the choice to change. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.