How closely do we hold ourselves to the standard we hold others to? it does cut both ways, even if we deny it How closely do we hold ourselves to the standard we hold others to? Chances are we are severely blind. . And finally, an 8-second read to illuminate the essence of “why”, (an 11-second read at the Next Blog ) By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.