Pamela really wants jeff noel’s feedback.
Sorry, that was arrogant wasn’t it?
We see what we want to see.
It is quiet, secure confidence.
You want to be on a stage and light a room of 600 on fire, you better damn well have confidence pouring out your veins.
PS. Note…that is what positive self-talk looks like. i never say stuff like that publicly. Every once in awhile, though, i write it here in the (faint) hope that if something bad ever happens to me, our son will have a chance to discover some of this.